Even though you may be in your 40s and newly single (or maybe you just never found the one), you shouldn’t give up hope! Love is possible at any age, even though the divorce rates continue to rise. It’s no secret that most men who have spent their youth partying or falling for the wrong girl.
Because of this, they may feel like they’ve squandered away their chances to date or even marry a knockout woman. Fortunately for you, we have some tips that will help you improve your love life and find that woman that takes your breath away.
Dating Tip #1: Don’t date.
Yep, you read that right. Don’t date. Think about what it means to date—it’s awkward, ridiculous pressure, and you’re not so secretly evaluating each other… And then what about the actual date? You go to dinner, catch a movie, maybe even a quick smooch. Be that as it may, you never get a callback, and you’re left wondering what happened. No, instead of going on a date, just meet up for coffee and get a feel for one another before you go out on a real date.
Dating Tip #2: Don’t talk or do too much.
The less you say or do, the more she is going to be attracted to you. Most men will try to impress a sexy woman, or “spit some game” on them. Sexy women have heard every line in the book before. But, if you ask her questions about herself, just shut up and listen to her, and display a small bit of interest, she’ll start to wonder why you’re not drooling all over her. She’ll want to learn more about you. Now she sees you as a challenge, and attractive women love challenging guys.
Dating Tip #3: It’s important that you be a gentleman, but know how to be a little naughty, too.
You don’t want to show her that you’re a class clown, it could be a turn-off, but if you can show her that you’ve got a sense of humor, and you know how to be cool and funny at the same time. When you’re talking to a woman, make unexpected and naughty comments. Leave her wondering.
Dating Tip #4: Avoid using lame pickup lines or any other kind of shenanigans.
Sexy ladies have heard them before and the moment those lame lines come out of your mouth, she’s going to roll her eyes and put you in the same category as all the other lame guys.
Dating Tip #5: Keep an eye out for those annoying little tests.
Oh yes, she will test you. She’s going to test you to see if you’ve got balls (figuratively speaking of course). If you can’t stand up to her nonsense, she isn’t going to waste her time on you. You have to hold your ground against her and prove to her that you’re a man who won’t bend to her will. With luck, she’ll be able to see that you’re a great guy!