Sometimes she’s hot and sometimes she’s cold. It’s a woman’s right to change her mind on anything, but when it comes to how she feels about you, you probably wish there was some continuity. You might feel like it’s hopeless trying to keep a fickle woman’s interest in you, but we are here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be.
We’ve got the tips that will help keep her interested in you and keep her engaged in what bond may be forming between the two of you.
Step 1. Confidence is Key! One of the easiest ways to keep a woman interested in you is by exuding confidence. She wants a man who is sure of who he is and where he’s going in life but not to the point where he comes off as an egotistical brute. It’s a fine line to tread, but it is worth being mindful of.
Step 2. Always Keep Her Guessing. When you keep her on her toes, she never knows what to expect from you and is rarely ever complacent. By keeping her guessing, she will never take you for granted and will always appreciate the time that you get to share with one another. One thing you should never do, though, is play games that have you bringing her in close and then pushing her away. A strong woman won’t take to these games very kindly and she may wash her hands of you that much quicker.
Step 3. Compliment Her Freely. One of the easiest ways to keep her interested is by showing her, unabashedly, that you are attracted to her and appreciate her. It doesn’t have to be anything extreme like profess you’re undying love for her, but it could be something as simple as saying that you like her hair style today or that she made an awesome dinner. You don’t want to become too repetitive and compliment her on the same stuff every day. Be creative!
Step 4. Keep Living Your Life. You shouldn’t feel like you have to drop everything in order to spend time with the lady you’re interested in. Feel free to continue to hang out with your friends and enjoy the life you were living before she came into your life. By keeping a little bit of “me time,” you are ensuring that neither of you will tire of the other and every moment you do spend together will be that much more enjoyable.
Step 5. Don’t Be Afraid of Romance. Women love romance and they love spontaneity. This means that you shouldn’t be afraid to get mushy every now and then. Plan a candle-lit dinner for two, take her out on a romantic picnic at sunset, make love on a bed of rose petals. Whatever you’ve seen in a rom-com, do it.
Step 6. Take Care of Yourself. This is more for you, but when you take care of yourself, she will definitely take notice and appreciate your efforts. After all, everyone wants to be with someone who is attractive and in good health.